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  • in reply to: Fat v NTFS #24631
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      JB my German Ex was the daughter of an SS Concentration Camp Guard. He absolutely hated me and would read a newspaper when I walked in, ignoring me. One day I had enough: I smoked then. Produced my lighter and set fire to the newspaper. The relationship deteriorated from then on and she turned out to be just like daddy.

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      in reply to: Text jumbles up. #24630
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        Returning to this to report I have solved it.

        I always suspected that it was a KB/Mouse problem, but became sidetracked by suggested ‘solutions’ from Firefox and Tom’s Hardware. Today I had an idea and uninstalled the KB. SWMBO uses the lappy with a Logitech wireless mouse M235: I found a software conflict between the Logitech drivers and the bog standard PS/2 drivers, so uninstalled PS/2 drivers.

        Rebooted and it appears to be fixed. I typed up loads of stuff including song lyrics, Shakespeare excerpts and other stuff containing as many different characters as possible. It all typed perfectly, no jumbled text. SWMBO now happy with her lappy, which brings back some peace into my life. ?? I took the opportunity to carry out a Disk Clean and a Reflect backup. Next week I shall remove the Lenovo crap, thanks for the link JayCeeDee.

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        in reply to: Plusnet vs. Openreach vs. Me! #24629
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          Thanks for reading my Vent guys! Tomorrow should see a message from Plusnet, usually a text and email. Appropriate action will follow, depending upon their reaction to connecting me correctly, as per the engineer’s report.

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          in reply to: Case fans #24601
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            In my CM N300, I have 2x CM intake front fans, 1x top extractor and 1x rear extractor. I also have an Arctic freezer Pro on the CPU, almost directly below the top extractor. This keeps everything below 29ºC, under any loads. However, I only have 1x 1TB spinner, a 32GB SSD Cache Drive and a DVDRW in the case, as I removed drives I didn’t need some time ago. So there is lots of space for the air to move in and out. If you have several drives and components to keep cool, I would imagine that more cooling would be necessary.

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            in reply to: Text jumbles up. #24545
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              I have found several more ‘solutions’ to attempt before I elbow Lenovo, back up the laptop and reinstall without the bloat.

              If anyone else here can suggest anything to deal with this, I would be obliged.

              Lenovo B50-80 laptop: http://tinyurl.com/ycl8ogl5

              Win7 Pro, Firefox, Open Office. 128 GB SSD.

               

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              in reply to: Great book … #24544
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                Great result in the end, Nolan!

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                in reply to: Road trip #24536
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                  Try this:

                  http://tinyurl.com/y99necdr

                  Which is “Home away”, a company I have used several times for cottage, hotel and B&B holidays. There is a good mix of expensive, MOR and less expensive establishment. The only caveat I have with them, is the amount of “Offers” I get when I have returned home, so I unsubscribe from emails every time, until I need them again.

                  Scotland has a totally different climate to us down here, enough to make it almost a different country.?? I have relatives up there and have visited the East and West, from Edinburgh and Glasgow to the far NW, far NE and the Highlands. I am told there is an increased anti-Sassenach feeling amongst certain Scots, although I have not been up there for some years. Last time I went was to a nephew’s funeral: he had lived, wed and divorced, worked there on the NE coast until his untimely death at 51. His son my Gt nephew lives far north of Aberdeen, but I have not seen him since the funeral. I found only friendship in Stonehaven and from most people in the area. My son and grandson recently visited Glasgow City centre to deliver household goods for a friend who moved up there. They record that “Road Rage” is much more intense when directed at Sassenachs! However, the people they met ‘on the ground’ and at places visited, were fine with them both.

                  IME. the Highlands and Islands have the friendliest people, the best scenery and the clearest English speakers, even though most are bilingual in Scots Gaelic and English. Probably because they speak slowly and clearly.

                  May is usually regarded as the best weather experience up there. In view of your current cash flow problem, perhaps it might be better if you could request your mate to wait until then. Booking well in advance usually gets a good discount anyway and gives you time to explain the details of such a long trip, to an inexperienced holiday planner. Good luck!

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                  in reply to: Where are the Bees Wasps Flies and Nats #24500
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                    A little salt poured onto any slug is a killer. They shrivel up and die, but I always scoop them up and bin them when dead, as I don’t want my backyard feathered friends eating a salty mess, bad for them. That is also better for the environment and other animals including pets, than Slug Pellets.

                    20+ years ago in Notts, I had an old neighbour who used to get up and out from midnight to 2 am, accompanied by his Jack Russell Spotty, who had learned to spot the invaders and bark at them. He would be in his adjoining front garden under our window, whacking slugs and snails with a big stick. With open bedroom windows in summer heat, all we could hear was “DUFF” ya bugga, that’ll do ye!” A proper old Geordie character, but I had to ask him to stop waking my missus, who felt compelled to wake me.

                    I showed him the salt trick, asked him to scoop, bin and please leave out the noisy running commentary from himself and Spotty. He was quite happy with all that. I did not wish to upset him, because his missus made the word’s best cheese scones, with a little added mustard which is how the best cheese scones are made. I admit to being a Cheeseaholic!

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                    in reply to: Brexit now = CETA +/-? #24497
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                      Not so sure about that, Bob. From what the opinion polls say about her personal standing she’s already well f@%$ed……lol

                      Nice riposte, VFM! ????

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                      in reply to: Where are the Bees Wasps Flies and Nats #24496
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                        Richard, the international grain markets are currently volatile. I have spoken to local farmers and googled more websites than I could show here, but the consensus is that the dry, hot weather has led to reduced crop yields all over the world. However, a few years ago Lincolnshire farmers, in conjunction with Anglian Water and the Environment Agency, invested in several measures to retain the ability to irrigate, in spite of being the driest area of the UK in any year. Ponds and lakes were created and a huge pipeline was built along the length of the county by Anglian, to take water from a reservoir further north, to South Lincs. Around here, the Lindsey Marsh Drainage Board carry out “Dyking” to keep the dykes and drains excavated with huge diggers, using the spoil to erect banks around the Dykes and ditches. If the banks are already high enough (and after a lot of annual excavation, many are) the spoil is welcomed by farmers, who have spread the well rotted spoil around their land, often for many decades. Consequently, there have been good crops hereabouts. East Lindsey Farmers are all harvesting: combines owned in common are moving around the area, I followed one today for 8 miles at 15 mph, behind a queue! They are still praying for rain though; we have had very little and this year is the first I have had to use my hosepipe more than 3 times, in 15 years. Farmers need rain after harvesting especially, to soak the ground and build groundwater, then fertilise, plough and sow. it looks as if they get their wish this weekend.

                        Currently, there is a situation where countries are looking for grain imports to replace their lost crops. The Russians in particular are scouring the world, desperate for grain. The £ is of course falling atm, good for exports, but the UK is hampered by the dumb imposition of Sanctions, which will only hurt ordinary Russian people and British exports of grain, which will be cheaper than others. No amount of sanctions will change Putins’ mind, release the Crimea, or make him admit to poisoning people by his agents. (Or the agents of certain Russian Mafia Oligarchs, which are probably the same agents)

                        This will not affect the usual, ongoing export of British barley to German breweries, which prize UK barley above their own. Every year the Lincolnshire and East Anglian ports fill German grain ships with barley bound for German breweries. This is the country with the strictest food and drink purity laws in the world, so we must be growing something good! Therefore, all you European travelers and UK pub drinkers of imported German beer should ponder upon the fact that you are imbibing a beverage which may have begun life right here in the UK!

                        Tastes better or worse for that knowledge now????

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                        in reply to: Used car buying advice #24494
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                          First garage I worked at for almost 5 years of hell under an ex-German/Romanian POW, who had a Rich Kid son. Tried him in the garage, useless and we hated working with him. Dad got him a job at a local big print business, bought him a silver 1600 GT Capri. He saw an ad for exhaust side pipes and dad made me fit them: I told him that it need sidesteps, or precious son would burn his ankles and I was proved right. I had to remove the pipes to fit the steps and recommended some slotted covers around the pipes for further protection. By that point I wanted to spend as much as I could on this car, so I also talked son into rear suspension Jacks, hoping that the lack of control would send the immature a-hole into the weeds. Or a wall. He saw the garage staff as answering to him at any time and I had a running battle with him. He actually kept myself and the foreman late on Chrimbo Eve, by going for parts at 12:00 and returning (drunk) at 4:30. I jumped from the ramped car I was working on and would have killed him if the foreman had not stopped me.

                          Eventually he did drive into a nice big, wide, deep ditch, which brought a smile to my face. Completely wrecked the car as there was huge old Oak at the side, which deflected the Capri into the deepest part, after demolishing the front end. The only disappointment was that the son received just a cut head. The tree is still there, only slightly damaged. He wrecked 3 more cars to my knowledge after I had left the year following the Great Capri Disaster. Eventually the Print company sacked him for being drunk at work and “bothering” female staff. His dad learned a lesson which did not become obvious until dad died and the Will was read: business, all money left to his daughter and husband, house to his widow with instruction that she leave it to the daughter and SIL, excluding the son. The daughter had the balls and intelligence that the son lacked. She and her OH built up the business and now own two more garages. The OH, a nice guy, owns, manages and trains a local town football team which is small-time successful, in the FA cup every year and once won the FA Vase. I went to Wembley for that, was pleased to see half of the County there. Only time I went to Wembley outside of Forest or England games, but saw Forest win more times than England, lol.

                          Escorts I drove and saw a lot of, but never owned one, preferred Capris, Cortinas and Granadas. My nephew, who lived next door to the Romanian Barsteward and annoyed him at every opportunity, had a 1.4 model which had Sodium filled valves to help with MPG. All this achieved was cooling the air/fuel mix and gobbing up the crankcase breather pipes, with consequent effects upon engine breathing and power: engine almost seized eventually. I cleaned them out, dropped the sump, cleaned out the blocked scavenger filter and pipes, flushed out, ran engine and refilled the (thicker viscosity) engine oil with new oil filter, then new (correct viscosity)  oil and filter in another 500 miles to counteract the flushing crap, which I normally hated, as it removes the “varnish” on components and when restarted, the engine is without lubrication until oil gets around. Eventually I dropped a 1.6 lump into it, then he resold it. It was his wife’s car and I found her the Drophead TR7 she had always wanted. I found her a good later, Solihull bonnet-badged car, as these are so much better than the Liverpool factory ones. It was an auto as she only had an Auto licence, and was quite knocked about by a wealthy, uncaring family, so I manged a great price after road test, muttering and shaking my head a lot. I stripped and rebuilt the engine, steering and suspension, the bodyshop carried out a bare metal respray in Champagne. My nephew having made a heck of a lot of money from an enhanced British Coal payout, he bough the local pub and paid for all this work without a qualm.

                          3 years later, after my nephews’ death from cancer, his widow sold car and pub, retired to become a wealthy lady in a big house. She is a lovely person and keeps in touch, as do my nephew’s stepsons, so I have no reservations there. She says that she would swap house and money for more years with Alan.

                          RIP Alan, nephew, little brother, best mate. 7 years younger than me, now many more.

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                          in reply to: Used car buying advice #24442
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                            John, That last story reminds me of the first car I had at (almost)17. A Ford V8 Pilot, sourced from a scrapyard “Spares & Repairs” or whatever we called it in ’62. Gull-wing bonnet, driving along with a young lady I wished to impress, when the bonnet that I had failed to repair properly, flew off. I was caught up by a terrified, angry driver at the next cafe, demanding to know why I had almost decapitated his entire family and producing the remains of my bonnet from the boot of his car. Humble apologies, quick exit, end of potential romance. Got a few quid from another scrapyard for it. (the car, not the young lady)???

                            I had a mate who built a Granada/Cortina ‘hybrid’. Granada 2.3 V6, suspension and steering, Cortina Ghia body. It looked like a high-riding Cortina but drove well, no body roll. Lots of mech’s and small garage owners in my area at that time, building “specials”, we were a ‘Clique’ meeting at weekends in certain pubs and places. we are all oldpharts now, still mostly in touch, although I would need a Séance to speak to some of the old crew! We used to bounce ideas and solutions off each other.

                            I have mentioned before that I had several Capri’s, but never one with a V4. Several Transits had that lump, it had a lower Compression ratio and the only one I ever drove was a part-ex we took. It pulled up 2 of the local steep hills out of the village, like a train, but refused more than a noisy 60mph on the flat. The 2 Capri’s I owned which impressed me most, were the 3.1 RS LHD in Germany and the Mk.1 1600 GTXLR:

                            No black bonnet, the previous owner had it repainted all yellow. He also had the engine blue printed ( I received all documentation with the car) and had a Plymouth Cricket 5 speed box fitted, from a Texas supplier. that was also blueprinted. Beefed suspension, twin choke Weber carb, high lift cam’s, etc, etc. Unfortunately he had it Cadulac rust proofed, company later put out of business as it cracked, allowed water in and rotted the chassis. I broke the car behind the garage and made much more than I paid for it.

                            But that car was very quick and I loved it. A good MK1 GTXLR is a collector’s item today, much sought after, especially in Germany. Ain’t it beautiful? – Oh well, it’s in the eye of the beholder!

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                            in reply to: polystyrene tiles #24436
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                              I well remember my first encounter with a Civic at the workshop. A 1975 model, although this example is a ’69:

                               

                              Still looks good today, doesn’t it? A neat little motor.

                              I looked at the engine bay and thought “What does this remind me of?” – (Example?) –

                              Then I got it: certain Honda motorbike engines. Had to road test it (foreman’s privilege) and was impressed with the buzzy, revvy engine and the fact that it had a stereo (A STEREO as standard?) Obvious good build quality. Part of the beginning of the end for the British motor industry.

                              As an aside: in around 1989, I had a customer who ran a Rover 25 and had wrecked his door aperture seals, resulting in excess noise. I sourced some from Honda (same Pressed Steel Fisher body thanks to Honda-Rover shared ownership) for a Honda Ballade. Sent from Japan, fitted well and I think were 25% less expensive than the Rover seal kit. Go figure, as the Yanks say.

                              Anyone interested in the Rover/Honda/BMW debacle, should take a look at this and see where the BMW 1-series really came from: –

                              http://tinyurl.com/ydbffoxt

                              EDIT: want a brand new, delivery mileage only, genuine factory model Rover/MG 75? Could have gone here in 2009:

                              http://tinyurl.com/ybycra3b

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                              in reply to: Brexit now = CETA +/-? #24433
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                                Know I said I was done with this, but this is from a mate at chemo (some great ‘gallows humour’ in that ward, nurses join in) : –

                                “The British people need an Election. Our PM needs an erection!”

                                Cue several suffering chemo cases holding their sides.

                                 

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                                in reply to: Fast and Ferious HDR, high dynamic range. #24432
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                                  Do you not have a WC TV? ?

                                  And:

                                  Nothing against tv, and the amount of shite programs …

                                  Obvious solution for most of today’s TV programming – down the pan with it!

                                  Graham, upscaling SD to 1080P on my Bravia is not detectably different from 1080P programmes on HD channels. When a 720 channel/video/movie is played, up comes “1080i” immediately followed by “1080P” and a much better screen picture. Also works perfectly with Humax Freesat 1080i channels.

                                   

                                   

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                                  in reply to: Fast and Ferious HDR, high dynamic range. #24417
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                                    My declining vision might just detect a difference between HDR and UHD: atm I cannot detect a difference between UHD and 1080P, so my 1080P Sony Bravia and the 1080P Hauppage tuner on this desktop, is fine for me. And both together were a damn sight less expensive! Desktop TV tuner works with an HP 24″ VH240a monitor and looks great to my eyes.

                                    It seems to me that the TV industry is approaching the point where they will have no more improvements to be had, and what is improved will come at a very high cost.

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                                    in reply to: Used car buying advice #24388
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                                      JayCee, did your Stag have the original Triumph V8, or a Ford V6 replacement? Those cars were one of the many Classics that I rebuilt, maintained and serviced. A customer asked me to fit a Ford V6, which is a relatively painless exercise, but I refused on the grounds that I could either find him a good Triumph V8, or rebuild his own engine. I saw “bread & butter” everyday cars as open to all kinds of transplants, but our name as a Classic builder & restorer, depended on each model being correct. Eventually he had a back street cowboy fit a Ford lump. Two years later he was back, Stag on a low loader and his original TR V8 with it. I rebuilt the engine, chassis, suspension & steering: bodywork lads rebuilt the rest. It was gorgeous and AFAIK he still has it. Some Classic owners look after their cars, some just learn what happens when you don’t.

                                      Ford Cortinas: I have had several over the years of all models, but always bought one that I could check on a ramp with the owner present. This led to longer and longer faces when I reeled off faults and began downsizing the asking price. Mostly they drove away, but I did pick up some bargains that I rebuilt for myself, drove, enjoyed and sold on for a nice profit. Pound for pound, the best one I think was a 2.0 Ltr. saloon Ghia 4 door in metallic light blue. Looked a real shed when I bought it for £200 in around 1990, I spent weekends and evenings rebuilding that car, as I did with many others over the years. I wanted to bump the motorway travel economy and worked out that a 2.0 ltr. estate had a higher-ratio differential. Lo, there was a Salvage estate in our compound! Transplant followed after replacing all bushes, seals etc. Cruising was magic on the faster roads and economy tested out better. I put in a twin choke Solex like the one below. (Webers at the time were more expensive)

                                      It went like the proverbial effluent from a garden implement, but accelerated steadily to the local limit, returned 32 mpg+. Heavy acceleration was ‘exciting’ but knocked the economy. As usual, after a year or so, someone local offered me good money and I moved on.

                                      First Japanese car I had was a Datsun 120Y 3 door. Bag of nails. First Hyundai I ever saw in the workshop, was a Stellar at its first MOT. It was all Cortina MK4* underneath and it failed on all the same bushes, lol. Engine I believe, was Mitsubishi or Mazda, can’t remember which. Fast forward to 2017 and 2018: I had a Tucson and then an i20X. Swapped the Tucson to the i20X because we each had ops and could no longer get in or out of it, but the Tucson was one of the most comfortable cars I ever drove.

                                      *There never was a “Mk.5” Cortina. The last model was a “Mk.4 Facelift”. differences were slight but the biggest tell is the roof, which has a higher line above the windows in the Facelift.

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                                      in reply to: Great book … #24384
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                                        Ed I have delayed responding to your last for two reasons: I was quite ill yesterday as the heat, humidity and chemo effects conspired to give me a bad day. I also needed time to consider your remarks before responding.

                                        I have no wish to offer argument or critique of your grand-parenting skills, That is your own family and none of my business. However, your grandchildren are all much younger than mine are now, ranging from a very mature 13 yo, through 19 & 21, to 24. We actually engaged “in loco parentis” for real, over almost a year when our son’s marriage broke up in one county and we won the responsibility to care for a 2 yo grandson and a 4 yo granddaughter, from the Courts and Lincolnshire Children’s Services. They were rescued from an abusive, neglectful mother and dad was working 12 hour shifts, 7 days a week. The house was a tip and initially both were taken into care. We took them until our son could find a home and work here in Lincolnshire. Almost 20 years before this, we had witnessed our daughter’s marriage break up when her shiftless, worthless husband left her with an 8 month old baby at the old cottage here in Lincolnshire, to be with his secretary at his Nottingham business. He has since been divorced by his ex- secretary, his business failed (the 4th such business). My daughter met a much better partner: they are parents of the 13 yo. They have also converted a 2 bed old rundown cottage into a lovely modern 3 bed home by hard work. It sits 100 yards up a secluded, private road and looks out onto beautiful Lincolnshire countryside. What was valued at £125K 5 years ago, is now valued at £375K.

                                        So you see, your family experiences are very different to mine and we have had to be sensitive in our grand-parenting. My wife and I have engaged in all our grandchildren’s education, work and activities over the years. Some of that was to repair damage done in their early years, by other grandparents besides their mother. I once pinned the other granddad to his house wall after he knocked my grandchild to the floor, then knocked him out. They thought it was OK to beat grandchildren and I disabused them of that notion.

                                        I had no way of spotting an “incipient smiley” anywhere in your words, I imagine that is your own sarcastic humour, but I failed to spot it. You assume blindly that I did not have ” … teenagers that drove you up the wall, or caused you real worries and concerns. ” You are wrong: both my son and daughter caused us problems, quite apart from falling for the wrong partner. I have embarrassed my daughter by pulling her out of a night club at 2:30 am, to get her out and away from a sluttish, drug-taking mate. I have remonstrated with my son for being the most untidy person in the house, in front of his mates. There were many more such events until they both settled down.

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                                          In late 1981 I was working for a boss I hated, which is something for me as I had endured without actual hate, some real a-holes in the Merchant Navy and 12 years of Army Service. The girl I had grown up with across the road was married to an old mate, who decided to strike out from his dad’s Mansfield garage and buy a bankrupt garage in the village, across the way to the one I was working at. I was wanted as workshop foreman and there followed some of my happiest working years, running the workshop in a family business among his 4 kids also working there.

                                          The place had been really rundown and it took 2 years of hard work to create a profit – making business. Boss/mate and I decided to dig up and level the ground behind the workshop, hired a digger and got on with it. We hit metal. I took a crowbar and tested the ground: lots of metallic sounds! Turned out that the last owner had buried some cars there, lots of 60’s and 70’s heaps which he had reported as stolen. Police were called, they brought in a bigger machine and I believe they are still looking for the guy! I think the only car which might have been worth something once, was a BMW 1602, the round headlamp model:

                                          Something like the above. Unfortunately, all the roofs were crushed and the bodywork of every car was trashed. I considered the motors after we had dragged everything into our recovery compound and asked the police what would happen to the remains. Eventually they decided that all the cars were ours, obviously they wanted no further dealings. We got that in writing and began to strip what we could from the cars, labelling everything properly with make/model/year etc. We sold quite a lot of stuff to a second-hand parts place and made a good few quid. Scrap was then at a relatively higher value than now, so all the remaining metal fetched another few quid.

                                          I received a healthy bonus for my initiative, suggestions and plans from my mate the boss, which was a bonus as the last employer refused to pay holiday money after I left. I would have loved to be able to rebuild the 1602, but it was too far gone. A classic now: really good ones fetch very good money.

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                                          in reply to: Great book … #24348
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                                            Grand-children are great. Spoil the kids rotten, give them more freedoms, give them a major sugar rush, then hand them back in time for their parents to take all the consequences. I call it revenge time for all the angst their parents caused during their own teenage years. e.g. sons pushing boundaries to their limits, and moody, tantrum-prone daughters.

                                            Have to ask if you actually have grandchildren, Ed? Neither myself nor my wife have ever spoiled any of ours, we always factor in son and daughter’s wishes before anything else. My son pushed boundaries and my daughter was moody at times, but that is family life. I pushed boundaries, so did my missus at her family home. It’s how families work, especially with teenagers.

                                            Family life can be affected by tensions and actions from within, as evidenced by Steve’s post. In my case, a mentally unwell and abusive mother and a father who did not know what to do about the abuse until he took me to my aunt’s home when I was very young, for almost 3 years until mam had the treatment she needed. Dad loved my mam, they had been together since 5 and 6 years old. That made him unable to stand up and recognise the abuse for a long time and I was 15 & 17 years younger than my brothers, who were married and gone by the time I was 5. Not weakness, he was a hard-working miner and dad to 3 lads. One day at 15 yo, I came home late for dinner, dad was at a green bowling match and mam just screamed at me about the dinner, over and over, I completely lost it. Used basic Anglo Saxon to tell her to ‘go away’. Did not hear dad coming through the door and hearing that: he turned me around and slapped me, for the first time ever. My reaction was to hit back. Big mistake: a right cross and a left hook knocked me spark out. I woke up with him holding my head and saying “Sorry son, are you OK? Ever talk to your mam like that again and I will really hurt you!” Later, my big bro told me “You did know the old man had been an amateur boxer, didn’t you?” No, I did not, thanks bro!

                                            I never felt like taking revenge against my kids. They eventually matured into responsible adults, just as I did. Maybe…

                                            Hmmm….. You old guys are all hypocrites lol. ” Not all of us, Steve!

                                            JayCeeDee, that’s an interesting life story. I share your wife’s feelings for people who have children they cannot keep, and dump their welfare upon the rest of us in benefits, etc.

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